Winners and losers
By now we know that Biden is won the election in the US, but Trump still in shock, denial, and refused the result! God is the one who make the plans, people are voting and the plan of the master will be the one that Guide the nation. The sore losers sometimes lose self-respect and in time they will recognize the grave danger of their behaviour and the people who died and will die as a result of this action.
After an election, people focus on who won and who lost. But, like all worldly events, the memory and significance of who won and lost fades over time. We may not care too much of what happened 100 years ago and in 100 years they may not care about us either. But what does matter for eternity is if we save or lose our souls.
The Winners
[Quran 9:71] The believing men and women are allies of one another. They advocate righteousness and forbid evil, they observe the Contact Prayers (Salat) and give the obligatory charity (Zakat), and they obey GOD and His messenger. These will be showered by GOD’s mercy. GOD is Almighty, Most Wise.
[Quran 39:15] “Therefore, if you worship whatever you wish besides Him.” You will be the loser, Say, “The real losers are those who lose their souls, and their families, on the Day of Resurrection.” Most certainly, this is the real loss.
Do we want to be winners for eternity? What are we going to do today to be among the winners?
What are the main differences between “winners” and “losers”?
WINNERS ARE LOSERS
When you lose, you learn and that’s an important part of your psychological development. The biggest winners have lost the most times. This is because winners will get out of their comfort zone and takes risks. Winners actually make the most mistakes, but they learn from those mistakes, and that’s what gets them closer to winning. If you never put yourself out there, if you never take risks, if you’re not prepared to lose… you’ll never win! When the department I used to work in wanted to do something different I started introducing something new that help to generate money and i was in the process of learning and improving my skill curve, but as always the manager did not understand that this is new thing and that I am not Einstein ,so the manager started pointing fingers, and not facts and criticize every step until I got discouraged and stopped doing that specific exam .
The clerks were under lots of stress as the demands was high for that exam ,and they can not find anyone to do it , I was the only one who was able to do it and was improving daily until it was too much red tapes , all the other workers have no clues about the exam and dont want to do it, so they lost the revenue and the person who was willing to do his best and start something new.
The department lost this revenue and lost those patients , and later I left them and they have to train the techs to learn new skills and do the exams that in everybody interest and helping patients.
If you don’t know what you want, you cannot win in life. How can you measure your success if you haven’t set any goals? If you don’t know where you are going, you are just swimming around in circles. Winners are focused. They know what they want and, most importantly, they know why they want it. All the most successful people I’ve met in life have a big “why” behind everything they do. Know what you want and why you want it, and you will be half way to winning.
WINNERS ALWAYS PLAY LIKE THEY ARE WINNING
If you play like you have already lost, you literally cannot win. You must play like you are winning, even when you are technically behind. You never know what might happen.
Winners don’t play like they are losing, nor do they let the past define them. Winners don’t look backward. Many people get put down in life, even bullied. Those who are able to shake off the past and keep moving forward are winners. Those who let their past define them, believing they don’t deserve to win simply because of how badly someone else has treated them, only lose again if they can’t get out of that self-loathing mindset. You have to address whatever is holding you back and break free of your past.
When you have high self-worth, you believe you are worth investing in. I have spoken to many people who say they want to improve their lives, but are not willing to invest in the education and tools that would help them. I’ve always invested money in my own development and education, and I’ve seen great results.
WINNERS PRACTICE PATIENTLY
When you allow yourself to fail, you learn. Winners do not expect to achieve something without practice. They practice patiently; they take the time to practice. I always get frustrated by people who come to Trading College with a get-rich-quick attitude; I have to explain to them that it takes a lot of time, practice and patience to get good at trading.
You cannot have a big ego if you want to be a winner because your ego will be crushed when you lose like what you see with Trump, and, going right back to the first point… WINNERS ARE LOSERS!
You have to leave your ego at the door if you want to win in life, or you will never get past your first loss.It is ok to go throw the Shock, Denile, and Anger but you have to remember that people are waiting and thier life will be in danger if you dont get on with it and let the past go and then focus on the future. each period of shock and denial has time limit but anger issue might stay with you for long time if you dont conduct yourself in a professional manor and let go.
Deuteronomy 31;6 “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Colossians 3;23-24“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”
2 timothy 2;5 “Similarly, anyone who competes as an athlete does not receive the victor’s crown except by competing according to the rules.”
Philippians 2;3 “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
Psalm 139 -24 “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
Life is too short to be angry all the time.People who let thier anger define them and linger in the anger for more than usual have no emotional intelligence, it is ok to be angry but you have to come with the term of your lost. You have to be polite, respectful.kind, and recognize that if you lost a battle it doesn’t mean that you lost the war. You have to change your course and direction, make new strategy and adopts to new tactics. True leader dont elinetae but unify .