If your partner have no sense of humor just leave them and never look back.
For so many people, it’s essential that there be at least a fair amount of crossover, because laughter is how they feel connected to people.
It makes them feel amazing to make them laugh and we are drawn most to people who can reciprocate. However, a sense of humor is far from being the only way you can be compatible with someone. So, what do you do if you are really in sync in every other way, but your loves one don’t get your sense of humor or don’t smile and laugh and always in bad mood. The answer is to leave and run as far as you can .Only if you are a gold digger like so many these days and attracted to what the person have and you just stick around because of the material issue.
In contemporary dating culture, a sense of humor often ranks at the top of must-haves in a potential partner. Since in these times financial support as well as religious or ethnic background are becoming less important factors when choosing a partner, personality traits tend to assume greater significance and one of these is an ability to make light of the world. However if you find that your date doesn’t really have a sense of humor, here are a few things to consider.
What we find funny is often the result of a whole complex of cultural, class, social and personal influences. Thus humor incompatibility is a very real thing between couples and the same could apply in your case too. In other words, it is possible that your date does not lack a sense of humor but rather a sense of humor that matches yours and this can make all the difference between a happy and unhappy relationship.
Someone can have a sense of humor, but if it doesn’t match yours, you’re not going to find similar things funny. In fact, you’ll probably start annoying each other if there’s a mismatch in your humor. Over time this may take the form of relational conflict which is a far serious matter than a partner not getting your jokes occasionally.
Dating a person with no sense of humor can turn out to be boring. When you are out on a long drive or walking through the Botanical Gardens, it helps to have by your side a date who can inject fun and liveliness in the air. To be too serious is to kill the relationship.
Conversation with a person devoid of any sense of humor can turn out to be stilted and monotonous; worst of all it can lead to arguments since one of the qualities of humor is that it helps to defuse a tense situation and allows people to differ in their viewpoints while maintaining overall harmony.
Things can get more serious if you are in a relationship with a person who definitely lacks a funny bone. Life with a light-hearted and jovial person can seem worth living since such people help you to bear the knocks of fate like illnesses, job losses and financial problems with greater ease and optimism. In fact an extreme intolerance with humorous situations can signal an inflexible, controlling personality someone who is not only extremely to live with and please but also may be potentially abusive.
Having a sense of humor is not critical for relationship success. But enjoying each other and the time you spend together is. It’s not at all a must that you crack each other up all the time. What’s much more important is that when you are together, you make each other happy and enjoy the other things you have in common.
So in the end, dating someone who doesn’t have a sense of humor is no guarantee that your relationship will fail. Rather the real issue is how well you two match up in the important areas of your relationship. If you feel like there’s strong and consistent compatibility in those areas, then there is little to worry; in fact inside jokes and humor compatibility often develop within a relationship over time.
If the important parts of your relationship are solid, you two will most likely be smiling together for years to come. People with sense of humor are statistically great people in bed and more romantic.
If he / she good looking, smart, have a good job, and you go to dinner then you find out that there is no common interest ,then you find that the person have no sense of humor; my advice is to call it quiet and run, even if you know them for 20 years.
Tom Hank in quarantine with Wilson.
Otherwise it’s absolute hell. If you are with someone who absolutely cannot take a joke and goes from calm to screaming in two seconds? It’s exhausting for everyone, and he/ she will mentally drain you when you are around them. Their sense of humor pretty much is compromised of memes, and well, it’s leading to the destruction of what was a pretty good thing.
If you love laughing or otherwise enjoying yourself being with someone who has no humor is worse than the death penalty. So next time before you wasting your years trying to date and asking someone over and over try to find out about their sense of humor and if you find that it is not their priority just leave them and don’t look back.
Steve Ramsey