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Drifting away a Family estrangements are fundamental to the human story

Family estrangements are fundamental to the human story, starting the day that God tossed Adam and Eve from the garden. Likewise, in Greek mythology, there’s Electra, who murdered her mother to avenge her father, and Tantalus, who cooked his son and fed him to Olympian gods.  Then Abraham who almost killed his son Ishmael as a sacrifice just when he puts the knife on his neck , God stopped him and replace the sacrifice with a lamb.

Marriage may fall ,partners drifting away from each other, romance turn to boring life and a nutshell routine,  family cut-offs have led to painful, shattering ends: King Henry II was forever on edge fielding challenges and betrayals from his sons; Mozart’s marriage left him estranged from his father, the controlling, nagging, unbearable Leopold;  This king also killed most of his wives and broke the catholic law by marring his wife sister after killing here , that’s why he discovered the Anglican church to separate from the catholic  and make his own rules.

 The American founding father Benjamin Franklin broke from his son, William, who supported the British king. Then there was the rift between Ronald Reagan and his activist daughter, Patti; and between Barack Obama’s, Jr and Sr. the list goes on.

Estrangements between siblings are especially brutal. The sisters and Hollywood stars Olivia de Havilland and Joan Fontaine engaged in a lifelong feud. Julia Roberts helped to fund a custody battle against her brother and fellow actor, Eric. From Cleopatra to Genghis Khan, the powerful have murdered or cut off their siblings as a matter of routine.

I’ve seen breakups in my own family. My brother and his wife, I tried hard to make them back but few years later they are departed, I blame my brother behavior for losing such a wonderful and beautiful woman. I bought them a house  and helped them so much but at the end all the money I spent didn’t help at all . When you lose respect you lose the passion and romance.

The statistics on family estrangement vary by study but are always sobering. In 2015, the psychologist Richard Conti of Kean University reported that more than 43 per cent of the 154 students he surveyed had experienced a family estrangement.

 More recent statistics come from Karl Pillemer, a family sociologist and gerontologist directing the Cornell Family Reconciliation Project. In his latest book, Fault Lines: Fractured Families and How to Mend Them (2020), he reports that among a representative sample of 1,340 Americans aged 18 and older, 27 per cent were estranged from a relative – including 10 per cent estranged from a parent or child, 8 per cent from a sibling, and the remaining 9 per cent estranged from a smattering of cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents and other relations. Half of these estrangements had gone on for at least four years. Looking only at immediate families, Pillemer estimates that nearly 20 per cent of American adults are in a state of estrangement right now.

This cold stat shows the human suffering caused by estrangement. ‘Being rejected by family, or deciding to leave, can be one of the most traumatic experiences in a person’s life, ‘writes the social work researcher Kylie Agllias in Family Estrangement: A Matter of Perspective (2016). ‘Adult children are maligned for estranging an older parent, or parents shamed for casting out a child,’ and sibling estrangements are ‘often overlooked altogether’.

Thankfully, a group of therapists and social scientists are forging a road back. One of them is the American psychologist Joshua Coleman, author of the forthcoming book  Rules of Estrangement. His interest in the field was sparked after his own daughter, then in her early 20s, cut him off. ‘It was the most painful, disorienting thing that I’ve ever had to go through,’ he tells me. He consulted a series of therapists who gave him ‘terrible, counterproductive advice, from telling me to point out all the good things I’d done for her to demanding she talk to me’.

 None of it worked so Coleman came up with a plan of his own: he would see everything through his daughter’s eyes and take responsibility for her complaints. It took a while, but the strategy was effective, and his daughter took him back. ‘We are now very close,’ he says.

A complementary perspective comes from Pillemer. ‘Can’t live with them, can’t live without them,’ he says of families after decades of research. Despite the cheery view of family depicted in media, in reality ‘most people have an ambivalent experience’, he says. As part of the research for his earlier book 30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans (2012), Pillemer asked the elderly about life lessons they valued most. ‘A surprising number … talked about family estrangements as the most disruptive [and] distressing’ events of all, he says.

Finding almost no existing research on the topic, Pillemer stepped into the breach, launching a series of studies including a national survey­ and in-depth interviews. These people, who’d been through estrangement, were ‘despondent’, says Pillemer. But as the interviews continued, he ran into a minority who had successfully reconciled after 10, 20 or even 30 years. ‘For them it was so powerful, it was such a transformative experience’ that Pillemer shifted his focus to them, culling their wisdom into his new book Fault Lines.

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THE REVANGE OF OUR EARTH FROM HUMAN

We call our Earth as mother Earth, now our mother Earth is becoming a mummy. Destroying humans, as we destroyed earth daily in senseless act from polluting the ocean floors and seas, tot eh fracking and looking for oil and minerals, to air and water pollution, killing the animals in the name of sport and hunting, fish and wheal are dying by the thousands due to sound and noise pollution, China and other countries paying cash for African poachers to kill elephants rhino and many endanger animal to use them for food and aphrodisiac , while the sick corrupt government in Africa is turning a blind eye and sitting taken out tax money our hard earn cash in the name of humanitarian donation everyday ,with nothing to show in return . 

Earth is like a human body. It has 70% of water, 30% of mass. It’s very well organized, structured and balanced, just like us as we all creation of one GOD. God created everything from water and water with sand ( mud/ clay). so we are part earth and part water .

100,000’s of years back human had very good health, people were very stable in physical and mental health. People consumed food that was familiar and compatible to the body. All the organs in human body functioned normally. People were very happy, healthy and peaceful. No can food, No genetic engineered food ,no hormones pumped animal meet.

Now people have lost the stability in physical and mental health. Reason people consuming unhealthy physical and mental food, Creating lot of indigestion in the body and mind. All the organs in the body function in random and unpredictable way. With this instability people are losing health, peace and happiness.

How about our Mother Earth?

Earth was very well organized, structured, and balanced with right amounts of organisms, nature, river, mountains and oceans. It was having all the seasons as expected and things were moving smoothly and softly. Nature was giving timely rain, flowers, fruits, vegetables, and food chain was working in a fantastic way.

Now with our technological advancement we have destroyed mountains, constructed mega structures, built reservoirs, destroyed forest, deeply digger mines, mega cities, and many more. Millions of fish  like salmon are dead and took with them lots of bear populations and other animal, the amazon forest have been burning and destroyed to build houses . We  have disturbed the balance of Earth, destroyed food chain, moved mass from one place to other. With these unscientific operations, we  have imbalanced natural process. So, effect is; Earthquake, Tsunami, Storms, Tornado, higher temperatures, freezing temperatures, and so on is an effect of rebalancing of Earth, Earth don’t know who is human, who is animal, who is insect, and so on. Earth work on Charles Darwin formula “struggle for existence” to keep herself alive, it can kill millions in one shot.

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The Nature, the Means, the Desire, and the Release from temptations

The body has its nature. If the body wants to sleep you have to provide it with rest. But, what do we do if the body wants to sleep? We put on the television because of an interesting movie, and then start eating without been hungry; we are working against the nature of our body. Don’t go against your nature, when your desire someone who don’t like you and don’t fit your nature, culture and emotional intelligence you don’t need to be hard on yourself, just let go and follow your true nature .Don’t go against your nature .

Suppose the body has a desire to eat and even though you have eaten, the desire has not vanished. Your stomach is full, but the mind wants you to eat, so the desire to eat still remains. Can you relate to this situation? This is where willpower comes in, the release from desire need a well power, training, just like when you fast from food for 30 days in Muslim culture , it is struggle between the nature of the body, the desire , to release . Follow your true nature .Don’t live in fake reality, be yourself and allow your nature to guide you with your spiritual growth.

When you drink lots of water and you are very tired, you go to sleep you will dream that you want to release your bladder in so many scenarios, some people do it in their sleep and most wake up in the last minute to go to the washroom to release. Our body have the ability even in sleep to work with our desire and release, to work with our stress and give us stress reduction ways ,and we can learn alot from our dreams

If there is no co-ordination between these faculties of nature, desire, willpower, and release, then life will be a total chaos. As we see in TV the nature of human is the need for respect, justice, fairness, good opportunities .Then the police and US legal system took that away from some people due to many reasons following human negativity of hate and discrimination and the desire to have only certain nations, certain color and culture, certain people you will have in your hand a negative and bad release of anger, violence, destruction, killing, and total ciaos

It will be a misery. When there is co-ordination between the four faculties, the desire and the nature are coordinated. The means and fulfillment are co-ordinated. Liberation can be taken to mean fulfillment. Suppose you have a desire to go to by a new and expensive car, or to b a doctor, or get the person you love. But, your desire is not co-ordinated with your means. You have no willpower, no money; you are not romantic enough to that person, and so on.

A farmer who raises chicken and then they hatched, he took the eggs to the market so he can sale them. He put them all in a basket to take to the market. It was quite some distance to the market. Usually the mind does not keep quiet. The farmer started daydreaming as he was walking along. He began to make various plans what he would do with the money that he would earn by selling the eggs. He imagined that he would become so rich if he can do that daily.

He daydream more and he thought that his friends would respect him a lot when he will get richer.  He would give his family more money and improve their lives. And he would be able to just relax and lean on a chair doing nothing and let others sale his eggs. While dreaming he dropped both his hands and all the eggs fell down and were cracked open on the street. He did not even reach the marketplace. He was so sad and upset.

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IRAN ATROSITY BEFORE NOW AND HOPE NEVER AGAIN

The evil persian empire destroyed IRAQ IN THE PAST AND INVADED TURKEY , PART OF GREECE, ISRAEL, THE ARABIAN GULF REGION AND PART OF EUROPE KILLING AND RAPING, STEALING AND LOOTING FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS . Iran still killing thousands of people in SYRIA, IRAQ, BAHRAIN, LEBANON, YEMEN, AND OTHER PART OF THE WORLD with terrorists attacks by hizboallah and hizboaldawa, qodos army , hotheen , mahdi army, and many other shia thugs killers groups. They sided with USA TO DESTROY IRAQ not because they love usa but  because they are evil have no honore, cowered and use them as tactics . AND HOPE TRUMP WILL FINISH THEM VERY SOON AFTER HE WIN THE ELECTION, USA, UK, FRANCE, ITALY AND EUROPE, WITH SAUDI, , UAE, TURKEY,AND THE GULF REGION WILL ATTACK iran .NOW WHAT IRAN DID TO INDIA IS BEYOND BELIEF  

Iranian king Nadir Shah returned back to Iran after looting and plundering the city of Delhi. He practically looted so much that he didn’t have the need to come back to Delhi again. He let the Mughal governor Zakaria Khan control Lahore for a 2 million rupees gift along with an agreement to pay annual tribute to Persian Empire.

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JAPANESE WERE THUGS KILLERS and most cruel people on earth among the Americans

Whenever the Imperial Army conquered a country, certain groups of Japanese individuals, usually young immature men, would come and bring terror to the towns and farms they occupied. Entire families were bayoneted, raped, and killed en masse. It is estimated that over 10 million people were murdered in massacres across Asia by individuals of the Imperial Army.

In the Philippines, IJA soldiers entered in a hotel full of refuges and bayoneted infants of mothers pleading mercy and raped women seeking refuge. At least 20 individual soldiers raped a young girl before slicing her breasts off after which an Imperial soldier placed her mutilated breasts on his chest to mimic a woman while the other soldiers laughed. The Soldiers then doused the young girl and two other women who were raped to death in gasoline and set them all on fire.

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Quality sonographer and speed

A sonographer asked the question about how to be fast in her job ? and she said

“It is the scanning part itself; it takes me too long to produce an image of good diagnostic quality (in my opinion)”.

This also can be true about many other technologists. Well it is have everything to do with all the points that you mentioned, the machine, the color and the scale you use, the cine lobe and the zoom, the annotation and the physics itself , that why I hate the word sonographer , we are not sono GRAPHER , WE ARE NOT PICTURE TAKER , like radiographer , mamographer, etc The word TECHNOLOGIST is more fit like MRI,CT technologist. Or we must use the word IST, like PHYSIOTHERAPIST, pharmacist, so we are SONOIST.

Forget the word SONOLOGIST as this is taken by the radiologists who have half of our skills as we are the true sonologists .So it is all about the machine and the speed of your critical thinking, don’t be panic sonographer. Do the best by doing the basic.

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psychology test for your paranormal level and superstitious

you can answer YES OR NO IF NOT SURE as you sometimes do it and some times not just put not sure . score 3 points for yes, 2 points for unsure and 1 point for NO. and keep the total. 

Do you believe that everyone has a destiny? Are you convinced that breaking a mirror will give you seven years of bad luck? Are you one of those people who have to “see it to believe it”? Paranormal beliefs, whether secular or supernatural in origin, stem back to the time of our ancestors, when the first and enduring medium of exchange was oral storytelling. Events that could not be explained logically became the source of superstitions, many of which have prevailed into modern times. Even today, the mysterious world of the paranormal is still a source of fear and wonder.

This paranormal beliefs test is made up of self-assessment questions, in which you will be asked to indicate the degree to which you believe in the given statements. In order to receive the most accurate results, please answer each question as honestly as possible.

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The south East Earthquakes

The south east earthquakes phenomenon , as I call it will strike most of the countries in earth at South East location, Some time to the country itself or to specific city and town south east location .It is a long thesis of mine to explain here .and If I am right with my calculations thats mean the earth will experience major volcanic and earth quakes activities of the century in shallow depth , large scale , and longer time duration

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