When we have a conflict we must end it with love, otherwise the vicious circle of hate will keep going on and on .If we don’t end up the negative action with positive action we will never be in peace. As we know from science for every action is a reverse reaction to opposite direction and same power.
The universe is not unjust it will give you back what you put into it. We always grow up as a culture of give me, this mine and this is yours. Without correct our behavior we will go nowhere.
Many people are attached to set f behavior, their pets, cars, or the significant others
Some attached to their cell phone or their parents. I am attached to God beside my family and my work.
I miss my ultrasound room and ultrasound machines when I resign or leave one place to second.
I usually have a last look to the ultrasound machine that I worked with; I hold the ultrasound machine like a human being and thank you and good bye,. Sometimes get caught by follow sonographer who sees me saying goodbye to the machine. Are you OK Steve? They always asked.
Yes I am fine I Just saying goodbye, some of them always ask and do they reply to you. LOL
Or you see their eyes and eyebrow changes angles like they are seen a ghost. We can be attached to our house or home when we were children , and when parents move to other home many kids find it difficult to adjust to the new house and project many stress and negative energy that make the house so unwanted .
The house can love you or hate you it is all depends on your mode, Anger issue, acceptance, and your positive attune the house can feel that. We get what we put in .If you put negative energy you will get it back and sometimes many time over.Everything in the universe has energy and we can be in hormone or disharmony with it.
Bad or good Experiences which take place early in our lives can shape out behavior, when we’re most sensitive to the attachments or detachments from our parents, Friends or home. We may harbor anxiety or cynical beliefs about getting too close to others. And we may have decided that it’s also not prudent to allow others to get very close to us.
We think we need these attachments to feel happy, but paradoxically, letting go of them can bring – at least for some people – a deeper kind of well-being. Letting go makes us aware that the attachments actually clutter up our minds, and overburden us with demands. We feel a sense of clarity and openness, now that our ‘identity scaffolding’ has dissolved away.
There’s a new sense of energy too, since our mental energy is no longer consumed by maintaining the attachments. If we understand that our life is between kindness and love we are wise but if we let our ego take over and live our life’s between our ego and hate we are building walls and rejecting people and changing the course of history and making it worse to our future generations.
By inclusion we are truly a human being and by exclusion we are worse than evil. No matter what the good attention behind building the walls are.The most positive and rewarding feelings are available to us only when we can be fully open and accessible–expressive and confiding, involved and concerned.
When our lives are more or less bound by the negative biases we harbor against getting too close to others–when, that is, we’ve come to assume that others are withholding, threatening, deceptive, or just generally abusive–our relationships predictably end up being rather barren. So don’t hate any one because they are different than you or because they have different skin color or religion.
When Jesus came he sat with the sinner, sick and those who pray to idols, while everybody hated them, shunned them and stoned them we found Jesus eat with them, sat with them and brought the gospel to them and change their life’s forever. Jesus didn’t close the Kingdom of God to the Arabs or the Palestinians but he won them to his side.
“When we point a finger at someone else, we should remember that three of our fingers are pointing back at us and our thumps pointed upward to God as a witness.” Steve Ramsey
We don’t know enough about everything because when we start think that we do we are not wise .We must always seek wisdom , knowledge , inclusion, respect, kindness, and looking for ways to change and adopt in positive manor .Have an open mind but don’t attach yourself so you don’t git offended or hurt .
Stay in harmony with your self and others, dont be judgmental , appreciate your life, health, work, Peace mind,knowledge you have obtained. It is OK to move forward and dream but dont let greed be your life but be grateful and generous.
Remember that you can nor split or divide God t all. Every thing else in the universe you can divided and all the energy will be back to earth and the universe as you can not destroy the spirit of thing , you can not destroy energy as it will transform it self .
Change your feeling and you will change your destiny for sure dont live like a robot , you must reprogram your self to be positive. What you will expect to find you will find it .
You can be right and correct nothing worn with it but always practice kindness as the key is kindness and not the power you feel when you are right . Make your self home have a sense or arriving and not always driving no where in your emotion, you can move forward with good planning and keep your imagination alive but be practical, flexible and kind.
Steve Ramsey, PhD
Alberta – Calgary