Mechanical Scholars define this process;  Drifting apart is a natural process known as diffusion. The good news is that it slows down on its own. The average distance diffused is proportional to the square root of the time the diffusion has occurred. As diffusion is caused by the random impacts of the thermal environment, it can be slowed further by reducing the temperature. So my advice is to let things cool down. We can cool down as human but what about God how can we cool down from him? It is very simple we must cool down our daily sins daily anger, greed, lust, envy and jealousy toward others we must work toward cooling down our anger and temper and be more humble with kind and respect attitude toward each other then we might be closer to him .

In order to come back together as human, random luck may be effective. If your personalities are one-dimensional, then this is eventually achieved. However, if your personalities are highly multi-dimensional, the probability diminishes for human relationship. We must not complicate the road toward God as the only road that he can meet us face to face is the road of faith, despite all our personnel complication.

While in human level the more complicated the relationship, the more difficult to return to where you used to be. Complications can be carved by distrust and unreliable person who creates the chain of events to scar our soul and our personality and makes it difficult for us to heal and be simple human. But with God is different as he always remind us that we might love something that not good for us ,and we might dislike something that it is so good for us in the future .But how we will know what God has in store for us good or bad ? Of course we don’t know we have only the blind faith that’s guide us , same in human relationship you never know what is gone happen and you join in faith but why we still drifting apart or diffused a part?

Diffusion is frequently impacted by other forces aside from random thermal fluctuation. For example, if there is a gradient of energy, this introduces directionality to the system. This is known as a biased random walk. Therefore, it is important to detect sources of bias and reverse them. We must watch the outside forces such evil deeds, negative people and bad friends to influence or thoughts , we must avoid those people who always in it for their self and add woods on the fire as those are one of the reasons that lead us to drift a apart from good people and from God.

The best human relationships are the ones where nothing is assumed. This enforces a focus on who each other really is as you change. The best relation with God is that which based on faith and trust.

People always try to play the experts and always say, “Do something exciting together.” Get those sparks going and let nature take its course. Well if you have no fire in you there will be no sparks between human, and if you have no holly spirit dulling in you there will be no rest for your soul until you walk with god in faith.

Staying together might not be the solution as human. God is completely different, as he will never gives up on you no matter what unless you decide and choice to walk with the devil and away from the true path.

Human might become less attracted to each other and loses the sparks as they say.. The “loss of spark” that you’re feeling is your subconscious picking up on his/her body language becoming more and more closed off. He/She’s basically weaning him/ her off of you, from a chemical perspective.  God don’t care how you look like,don’t care about your skin color or race, rich or poor ,young or old ,all he cares about your heart and soul ,are they toned with him in faith, do you put your trust in him and love him and talk to him this is the real spark of faith and one day you will get the greatest spark of all when he let the angels leads you to his paradise .

However, the process of drifting human relationship is reversible. Understand that catering more and more to his/her  needs is the opposite of what you need to do. It will be interpreted as neediness and will signify to her, at least subconsciously, your lack of self respect. Moreover, anything you do out of fear of losing him/ her will be seen along the same lines. 

Take a look at your life and think about the lifestyle that you want to live. If your man/ girl is starting to be less interested then you probably aren’t living your life to the fullest and creating an amazing life for yourself that she wants to be a part of. Are you perfectly sound from the perspective of health, wealth, and family?

 If you aren’t in shape, fix it. If you aren’t making enough money or are stuck in your job, find a way to improve. If you have issues with your family, find a way to approach them in a healthy manner. Most importantly, if you have any sort of issues revolving around a lack of self-respect or self-esteem, you have to figure them out. They will prevent you from achieving all of your goals in life. God want you to be successful, healthy, welling to give more than take and help others, humble, kind and he will open a door if a window of opportunity closes in your face but you have to keep knocking the doors , keep asking, keep looking for improvements and never give up so easily.

Remember that there’s always a push/pull happening in a relationship again just like in physics  for each action there must be a reaction equal to it in force and opposite to it in direction .

The more you pull him / her back to you, the more he / she are going to push you away. You cannot “convince” him /her to love you more by showing him /her how much you love them. The problem is that many advice will often to work when human decide to drift apart.  Human live limited life if you drift away for 30 years you need another 30 to fix the problem by time you see the love one they are either dead , old or they forgot you.

 One of the biggest problems with drifting a part is the boredom issue, boredom doesn’t necessarily mean the relationship is broken, it just means some change is in order. You need the ignite the fire again to see the spark so you need more energy of the heart and fuel of the soul in your personality to bring back those beautiful memories that once was between you and now are under the ashes of boredom .

Make your desire your compass. It’s the thing inside you is what can actually guide you on the path with your partner. It’s the piece of you which tells you when you want more, when you want some space, and the part of you that can *feel* what it is she wants, needs, and feels herself. With God you don’t have to fear anything as he knows and listen to you ,he gives you space and time to think and rethink again ,you need to show him your desire to trust him, love him and walk with him in faith and then he will liberate you from the flesh of desire to the desire of faith in him, yourself, your family, your friends and community. When we lose faith we lose ourselves.

What can you do? To start we must fix these point in us.

1)  An Out-of-Control Schedule.

Ephesians 5:16
redeeming the time, because the days are evil.

2)  Misplaced Affections

1 John 2:15
do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

3)  Discouragement

Satan using his weapon of discouragement to drag people away from spiritual activities, when the trials of life cause a person to become discouraged, he often begins focusing on those problems and takes his eyes off of God.

 It reminds me of when Peter walked on the water. He did great until he took his eyes off of Jesus and let the devil doubt him and began looking at the waves beneath him and the clouds above him and then fell in the water.

4)  Abundance

1 Timothy 6:10
For the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many grief’s.

We often make wealth our god and not the true King of heaven. This has also been a recurring theme throughout the entire HOLLY BOOKS.

5)  Parasitic Sins

Hebrews 12:1
Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,

The solution here is not to run/drift away from God. The key is to confess your sin to God who will restore you and make you whole again (1 John 1:9)!

This is also true with human relationship, when you drift apart try to use communication and conversation to build the bridges and keep the robes and the safety boats around you. Be open mind and confess your mistakes and needs, your desire and reasons.

How have you done in your journey with God over the past year or the past few months? Have you drifted? Now is the time to return. Call out to God before you are so far from the shore than you lose all sense of spiritual direction. It is easy open your holly book at least 5 minutes a day as you do open your e mails and face books for hours. Pray to God when you go to bed and when you wake up, when you drive and when you eat. When you enter your home and when you leave as you don’t know when your last day is. Many lost their life’s in car accidents or due to other reasons and most are younger than you so Thank God for the gift of life and ask him for the wisdom to be part of ship of life called faith  and not part of those who drifted away from Noah ship.

Thank you for reading

Steve Ramsey- Calgary – Canada.