A good friend of mine put in trouble because of a fake e mails that were created by an evil person who is working in the same department with him, she created a fake e mail and started sending lies and accusations to the CEO, Director and the manager about this friend who just got his Master degree in medical Ultrasound from the UK, and he is in the top of his skill doing general ultrasound and vascular technology , in one of the great hospital in Dammam, Saudi Arabia .
This Pakistani Doctor work as an ultrasound technician in that place and she was put as acting ultrasound supervisor the place until they hire the supervisor. She turned the place to a prison for any new stenographer that hired by HR , and made sure that no one can take her position, this low life CONTROLLING FREEK has no leadership skill , she was the greatest ass kisser of all , and she alienated every body . When she started she couldn’t scan the thyroid and she forgot that other techs have weakness and strength and all of them can learn the technology but it is difficult to teach morality and attitude to some one who has non like her self.
She so a leg venous exam in supine position and she puts the scan was done in erect because she is lazy of doing the scan as the doctors asked us to do in erect position and then she lies , when the patient complain as the patient can see the screen and can read what she put ( erect position ) she was a doctor her self and then she said that the patient is a liar !.This freak show seen in so many places in Saudi Arabia and it is one of the main cause of so many westerners leaves the kingdom , as most of them come with direct conflict with those low skilled workers from Asia and the middle east.
She made sure that she put spies and that no one get any positive credit . Now she got ought and the hospital she work for found out about her new e mails and they found out the IP address that belong to this witch .They brought her for questioning and she admitted. Now she is kicked out and my good friend with his high skill is in the supervisor position where he belongs. The problem is she still working in the place , and that is the biggest mistake of the management she should be fired on the spot .As to destroy some one Image and back stabbing others for your own gain should not be forgiven. She should be set an example to others. She is not a team player and stupid ,covering her stupidity with ass kissing the people in charge and writing false reports. The worse thing is she pretend she is pious Muslim and pray to God! Which God are you praying to?
She is finally got fired from the hospital and I feel sorry for any body who will take her , I already told many of my friends to make sure that she have no place here in Calgary or with our team.
IN Many holy books mentioned that God will not open the heaven for those who commit backstabbing and gossip ,and if they repent they must undo the harms they did to others.
A happy and content person chooses friends who share his or her values, beliefs, and interests. Such a person likes himself, and as a result only selects people he or she likes as friends or associates. Sometimes we like the opposite for short time to excite our life’s .
Friendship is about likability and trust, and if you show that one of those components is missing, you’ll have a harder time making friends. The next time you feel the need to talk about your friends take a moment to understand why.
Do you think spreading gossip will help make you stand out? Do you believe it will give the perception that you’re “in the know”? Many of those evil friends do that.
But if you’re not happy with who you are, you’re more likely to choose people merely because they’re interested in you, and willing to spend time with you. You end up with those evil people and you call them FRIENDS.
If you’ve never passed a positive evaluation on yourself, then it stands to reason you won’t have a very positive evaluation of those who select to spend time with you.
A confident person isn’t a braggart or a narcissist (i.e., a person who feels entitled to rights or needs to which others are not entitled). But a confident person does feel, on some usually unspoken level, that, ‘I’m a good person to be with, and others will like what I have to offer.’
When people don’t like themselves, their friends (or even spouses) serve as a reminder of what they don’t like. If you don’t like yourself and I’m your friend, then I’m a reminder—when you see me—of the fact that there must be something wrong with me, in order to like you. Stupid gossipers dont understand that.
It’s irrational and illogical, of course. But it makes psychological sense, given the underlying premise that ‘I’m not a likable person.’
People who treat their friends poorly usually get the rap for being ‘selfish.’ In this context, the term is meant to imply that the person ‘likes himself too much, and as a result won’t even treat his own friends or spouse well.’
This makes absolutely no sense. If you like yourself even moderately well, you’re going to treat those you care about with loyalty and respect.
You wouldn’t need some arbitrary rule to tell you, ‘Be nice’ to prevent you from talking badly about your friends.
Your friends and romantic partners are your choices. They’re not like your family-of-origin, whom you did not choose (although you might choose and enjoy staying connected with them).
To denigrate the people you choose to have in your life is to denigrate your choices—i.e., your own basic self.
A person with self-esteem, whose content and serene in his or her own skin, will gladly stay home alone before spending time with people he or she does not enjoy. Insecure people, on the other hand, have to be with somebody. Their choices are somewhat indiscriminate, and as a result they don’t think highly of their own choices.
Sometimes people willingly stay with people they see as inadequate friends. They’ll stay with friends whose values, behaviors or choices they do not enjoy or admire.
As a result, they feel badly about themselves when they agree to spend time with such friends.
This is a variation of the same theme. ‘I feel badly about myself for not making better choices in my own life. I’m choosing people who reflect that negligence, because they’re not making better choices, either.’ It’s not necessarily an explicit, conscious thought of this kind. But that’s the thinking underlying the feelings of resentment and guilt some people have, when in the presence of friends.
In order to distract oneself from that resentment and guilt, the person talks about the friends behind their backs, in order to gain some relief.
It provides some temporary relief, perhaps, but the facts still cannot be wished away. The facts are you don’t feel good about yourself for the choices you’re making in life, and the friends are merely a symptom and a reminder of those choices.
In assessing ourselves and other people, we tend to be too casual and superficial. We say things like, ‘It’s not nice to be selfish,’ or, ‘If you don’t have anything nice to say about other people, then don’t say anything at all.’
These directives don’t begin to get to the heart and core of the matter. This is why these preachy clichés never stick, and only induce more guilt (in conscientious people) without resolving anything.
So much starts with self-respect, self-esteem and self-awareness. Your behaviors, choices and emotions are all reflections of what’s happening in your own thinking, and in your own mind. Start there when trying to figure out why you’re acting in a way that seems to make no sense.There are always a motive .Those who gossip about you are jealous and envy you. They want to get your job and undermine your achievements with lies and false stories .
Those evil people dont know that you know exactly what they say about you from phone records, facebooks, emails, and the relay of the gossip from another friends. They are so stupid thinking that there lies will stay with the person who they tell .
Don’t trust those friends who tell others the gossip at work place ,they are losers, nerds ,stupid,low life,they get divorced more than others, they dont have reliable partner, they lie, low self esteem. unproductive, evil, untrusted, fake, gold diggers, self serving, jealous, with inferiority complex, sometimes bipolar and have psychosis, useless and use people,2-face , village idiots, they try to copy what you do and fail, failure, under achievers, nose browning individuals, miserable, stressed out and always call sick or show late to work, judgmental, and they are cockroaches of our society.
Thank you very much for reading.
Steve Ramsey, PhD.
Calgary, Alberta, Canada.