One of my blog readers asked me a question about human chemistry, and attraction? And why his beautiful friends Connie like him as a friend and not more than that?
He added that she told him many time that she have no romantic feeling toward him and can’t do more than to be a friend, He love her so very much and asked me what to do. I found myself digging into the books, history and the human psychology in the holly books and this is my answer.
The true love should be directed to God only, and all other loves are of the flesh, lust, temptation or to make a foundation of a family and partnership. To be a partner in any situation you must have similar likes and dislike, same goal, and personality that attract to each other throw mutual respect, dignity, compassion, and of course romantic feeling if the partnership was for marriage or love. We are attracted to vibration throw looks, sound, behaviors, and statue.
She might not like the way you look, maybe you are overweight or not in shape, maybe she don’t like your teeth or part of your body part, maybe she done like your personality or political ideology. She or he has made their mind about the person who wants to be with.
In the animal Kingdom, birds, fish, and insects, the male goes through many difficulties to attract the female, you see the male species more beautiful , have gorgeous feathers, and colors, beautiful sound and voice . Or strong body, big horns, good fighters, etc.
The idea is to stand out in the crowd, to be the prime among the rest. This is also true in the human specious. The only different that some human select those who are kind, generous, helpful, faithful, truthful, handyman, good father image, and then they look after other sexual points.
Using The miracle of Quran and Torah and its numerical value of 137 as a “coupling constant” between Quran, Torah and science, delves into the cutting-edge theories of modern physics, such as complementarity, uncertainty, the expanding universe, entanglement and CPT symmetry to reveal their miracle significance exploring elements of the standard model of physics through the prism of the holy books that reveals a complete spectrum of insights into both realms – and even suggests new avenues for scientific investigation.
How do 137 determine human lifespan and couple the body with the soul to give life? How does this relate to the role of women in society, the power of communication and the power of music and chemistry? I will write about this subject soon.
The chemistry you are talking about in science term is the scientific discipline involved with elements and compounds composed of atoms, molecules and ions: their composition, structure, properties, behavior and the changes they undergo during a reaction with other substances.
This is true when a female look at you, she look into your eyes, smiles and lean toward you and that is attraction for starters. They will check your feeling and disciplines, your body is the atom, your personality and attitude is the inner ions, as many ladies do not like a rude men and men with bad attitude. Then they look into your work, what you do and what they will feel when they are with you, do you make them feel important, wanted, romantic, loved, satisfied, number one, faithful to them.
Or do you lie, show no interests, lazy, and have bad behaviors and addictions. They want a man who can communicate and give them time and share feeling and most importantly a great listener .Otherwise if you don’t fit they will feel that the relationship will drift away, or they will be living with you in a nutshell. Many women assume something based on previous relationship and they do not give a chance to someone who is trying so hard to win her heart. The best thing is to let go and be a friend as the attraction is not solid for her and she do not feel any vibration and connection to you.
Nearly 2000 years ago, the Zohar, the classic text of the Kabbalah, and also more than 1400 years ago the Quran mentioned the same thing and predicted that in our day and age – “beginning in the six-hundredth year of the sixth millennium” – revolutionary advances in secular knowledge would burst forth and flood the world. The Quran also mentioned many of these facts along with the hadith.
The holy books predicted the resulting upheaval that is now causing the world, unable to adjust to the astounding speed of change, to reel in chaos. We face a crisis situation at all levels of society; wherever we look we see dysfunction, instability, turmoil, natural disasters, illness, poverty, wars, famine, apathy and confusion. This is also Chemistry of human as some people do not like others, they might not like your faith, your look, skin color, culture or gender it is based on prodigious and discrimination, and ignorance and arrogant behaviors.
God created us all equal and the best among us are those who have a true faith in one God, and fear him, pray and worship him only, and those who fallow his commandments.
Modern physics and chemistry has forever changed the way we view and understand physical reality. With a wide spectrum of theories, from general relativity to quantum mechanics, our conceptions of the very big and the very small are no longer intuitively obvious.
Many philosophers, even scientists have expressed the opinion that the counterintuitive conclusions posited in modern physics are best understood using spiritual terminology.
Modern physics reflects foundational concepts in the holy Quran and Torah inner dimension. A wide range of topics from relativity (special and general), quantum mechanics, and string theory are addressed.
The holy books proposes new directions for scientific research into important areas such as a unified field theory, CPT symmetry, the relationship between acceleration and gravitation, and the possibility of uncovering additional dimensions in physical reality, demonstrating how the Quran and Torah’s depth can be used to fertilize science and further our understanding of nature.
Nature and science have served as a source of parables to explain profound spiritual insights throughout Islamic and Jewish history. The general teaching of the Sufism and Chassidic Movement is that every Divine concept has a parallel manifestation in the physical world, and also a spiritual parallel in the psychological realm. This teaching is emphasized in Chabad Chassidus. A true parable reveals the essential union between different strata of life.
The idea is to unite “chaotic lights” with “rectified vessels.” reveals how integrating the chaotic lights of the primordial holy books in the stable vessels of modern science is an integral part of this messianic mission.
The language common to both realms is numbers. The key to revealing the numerical language of the Quran and Torah is hidden in its deepest mysteries, the mysteries of Sufism and Kabbalah. It provides the fitting parables to achieve this goal.
Any process of spiritual growth must proceed through three developmental changes in psychological attitude and they are “submission (Islamic believe also called submitters) , separation ( get away from bad deeds, evil doing, temptations, and not to follow the steps of evil one with aggression and other forms of oppressions, then sweetening”.
Our ultimate goal is to sweeten our problems, to transform darkness into light. Remember that demons , evil and falling angels drinks the light , yes drinking the light as described in the bible when king Sulaiman capture a demon who was stealing the jewels, and when the king ask the demon why you steal the precious jewels the demon answered that he needs to drink the light and rendered them stone.
But in order to accomplish this, we must first nullify our ego, the root of all of our problems and anxieties, and create a pure, positive state of good and light within us, separated from our outer darkness.
In Transforming Darkness into Light, the Quran, torah and Tanakh presents the fundamental elements of a system of holy books psychotherapy, as it has developed in Chassidic, and Sufism thought and practice, and in the Muslim world with Sufism.
The holly books highlighted many ways in which the Jewish and Sufi mystical path to psychological well-being both agrees with and differs from the dominant schools of modern psychotherapy.
Scholars of Abraham faith also examines in depth the pivotal role played by the therapist and the power of speech in counseling. It shows, step-by-step, how to separate out the negative influences in our lives, heal our psychological wounds and how to taste the sweetness of inner peace so that we can do our part to bring the world to be a place of peace and blessing for all humanity. The 3 key factors always are Faith (eman),
Taqwa (fear of God, and following his commandments), and Repentance to God only as he alone can forgive your sin.
“Open my eyes that I may gaze at the wonders of Your Torah.” And in Quran; God ashrah qabli lel Islam (open my easy, heart and mind to submit myself to you God so I understand your wisdom).
Knowledge of the holly books has the power to motivate us to refine our behavior, our relationships and our perception. As the holy day approaches, we can prepare ourselves each week by integrating the themes revealed in the Inner Dimension of the World that is all peace, and must not harm any creature.
One of the most important contributions of the Quran and torah has been in the realm of psychology. The prophet teachings interpret and apply the myriad metaphors to the realm of the human psyche and soul. The books discussed the best way to get a true love and relationship between man and woman and between the human races.
Many people mistakenly understand meditation as an attempt to clear the mind and transcend the intellect. Really, I think meditation is meant to refine our intellect, so that we can infuse our day-to-day consciousness with Divine consciousness.
The purpose of worshiping God alone, meditation, and prayers which are to seek God, as God talked to us in so many verses in the Quran, also in the Bible; King David says in Psalms, “with all my heart I seek you”.
The meditation of living in Divine Space essentially involves constructing a cube around oneself – a spiritual sanctuary – defined by these six commandments. The interior of the spiritual sanctuary thus built by meditation becomes the Divine Space where we can open our hearts to God in prayer. The object of prayer inside the meditation cube is to transform the meditative state into Divine living and to shift from a state of self-consciousness into one of Divine consciousness.
We must understand the truly universal human condition and to seek to bring all peoples of the earth together in peace and harmony. We are the first generation to truly understand that we are faced with the challenge of either inhabiting our planet harmoniously or not inhabiting it at all.
Filling our future is the fundamentalism that threatens to pit one religion against another. But, our different relationships and understandings of G-d should not be the reason for conflict but the source of goodwill in building our relationships with one another and our ability to understand others that is the true chemistry.
Before the revelation at Mt. Sinai, God commanded Adam and then made a covenant with Noah, giving them the guidelines for the universal religion of mankind. The most well-known part of this covenant is the seven universal commandments, or the Seven Noahide Laws and that is to develop their own relationship with the Almighty and implementing these potentially unifying laws of basic human nature.
The body-mind connection is a well-documented fact in today’s medical paradigm. Yet, long before recent scientific research uncovered this natural linkage, it was described in the Quran and the Torah teaching, with one important difference–there it was understood to be a link between the body, mind, and soul of the spiritual been and healing.
“The phenomenon of disease is one of [spiritual] separation or estrangement,” the holy books teach us that when we disconnected from our innermost self, and our spiritual Source, illness manifests.
Were we to understand the true source of our ailments, and give full expression to our yearning to connect with our life Source, we would have very minor need for external remedies.
Thank you for reading part 1 .
Steve Ramsey, PhD. Okotoks , Alberta – Canada.
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